Berder wrote:Yes - but what bothers me is when people try to make it sound like there's absolutely no possibility of an alternative way to do things from the way they like to do it, no way, and say you're giving terrible advice.
I can't speak for others, obviously, but the major objectionable thing in your first post, IMO, was the following:
It's much more effective if you get fireball online fast and neglect defenses to achieve that.
This isn't a claim about one option or legitimate way of playing; it is a claim about good play, and it was given as advice. Perhaps you
meant something more along the lines of, "You may want to prioritize getting fireball castable on less robust/resilient species, even if you end up with less dodging, but you should of course still train as much dodging as you can spare." That would not have been an unreasonable thing to say, in my view. But that isn't what you said.
New players actually reading Tavern for advice (may god have mercy on these poor souls) will interpret the above quoted sentence as it is written: Train minimal if any defenses until fireball is "online," which they may well interpret as being "1 or 2% failure." This tends to be a common mistake among new players, already; they under-train dodging on "casters." (The YAVP/YASD forum is an archive with many examples of this.) So yeah, any advice that reinforces that mistake is bad advice, and is going to be attacked/shot down pretty viciously by many of the old hands here on the Tavern.
Berder wrote:And then you look at some games and see that your advice is actually what nearly everybody does, including some of the best players.
First, before you go off cherry-picking from people's morgue files, maybe you should first listen to what the people who actually played those games are telling you!
Second, more generally, the advice people give to others who are new to something is not just an imitation of how an experienced person does the same. This isn't just true of Crawl, it is true of nearly everything, and it doesn't make the person giving advice a hypocrite.
For someone struggling to ascend their first character, of course I am going to advise him or her to retreat from *all* enemies, draw them back to safe places to fight, and so on, even when they are playing a MiBe. When I play a MiBe, I do not do this consistently, because the only reason I play MiBe
in the first place is so that I can play pretty carelessly and fast, even in the early game, and still usually be alright.
Some of the posts in this thread might sound like the view it expresses is the only possible way to play the game successfully, which is not accurate. But your insinuations that everyone actually does agree with you and is just saying otherwise to give you a hard time is pretty toxic to conversation also, fwiw.